Monday, October 01, 2007

this confirms (everyone's suspicions and my own) that i am weird

i was perusing through 2 beautiful wedding websites of two couples i know personally from church.

instead of feeling the fuzzy longing of wanting to be get married too like most girls...

i suddenly feel like i don't want to get married.

6 comments:

cheekysalsera said...

Sorry to bust your bubble darling, but you're not the only weird one around here. I'm pretty sure I'm the other. Hah!

To be frank, I don't think marriage is actually the problem. It's the wedding. Do you get what I mean?

joline said...

cheekysalsera:

i sure hope so, cos that would be easily rectified. but a part of me is unsure, and for good reason. thanks for the honest conversation earlier!

Anonymous said...

so do i feel the same, it is not the wedding itself for me. It is just that i dun believe two pple who knew each other for like 3-4 yrs(the time u dated each other), to live together happily ever after, this notion just sorta make me feel unrealistic, ok u can argue that happily ever after is rosy picture. but to get along and LIVE with someone u know for so short a time, dun make sense to me...i mean even family members get on ur nerves, wat to say ur mr right? i dun quite into the idea of marriage now.i rather live with my parents than risk it on a gamble called marriage.it is really a big gamble and the stakea are too big for me to lose.i rather dun risk it

Ambrose said...

sheesh.. and i thought i'm the one with commitment phobia heh..
so many people who fear the unknown, apprehensive of change, unconfident of making decisions..
nothing wrong with hating the hassle of a wedding, or fearing the importance and significance of it; but to not risk it?
nay.. i'm a gambler, a risk-taker. if there's a chance, and i think it's worth it, heck i'll grab it! mayb that's where statistics come in huh? =p
in all honesty, life is based on decision-making and risk management. if you don't take risk, you're not living life. heh. :)
happy happy! i love shark's fin soup =,='"

Anonymous said...

the thing is must make calculated risk, one that u are sure of winning or 'breaking even' more than losing. Hell, losing in this gamble called marriage is a big deal lor

joline said...

to each his own... but i guess man and women were made for a reason lah. :-)