Tuesday, March 08, 2011

You can't just keep taking out from the emotional bank. Negativity, criticism, picking on faults. That's all you ever do. All you know. It is your legacy.

In order not to react, i cannot only shut you out mentally. I have to shut you out physically so that i will not hear anything you have to say.

9 comments:

pancake darling said...

what r the underlying reasons this person may have that he/she is acting this way?why is he/ she doing this?by the way, there is this nice restaurant called "food for thought" at bras basah mrt that sells good old pancakes

Joline said...

i may or may not know have the answer.
but even if this person has some baggage, it's not a good reason to take it out on others constantly. in time to come, even the toughest of punching bags will start to fray.

and yes, food for thought has come really yummeh food. ;)

Lucille♥Love said...

one of ur counsellees?

zen said...

i think it is unfair to lash out on innocent party. somebody should just highlight to this person that his/ her behaviour is disruptive.

Lucille♥Love said...

somehow these category of ppl get angry when you guard urself from their attacks...sooner or later they might learn their lesson when no one wants to be around them...

joline said...

Lucille:

nope, not counsellee. and yeah, i hope the person gets the idea... but a bit hard to not run away from this person lah.

zzen:

i have highlighted the problem but, i think it hasn't gone in. either the person doesn't want to admit it outwardly but knows it inside or is honestly just in denial.

butter corn muffin said...

things will look up soon. perhaps he/ she has some deep reasons but do nt want to reveal why. there must be a way.it is just we haven discover how.

true love stories never have endings said...

i came across the beautiful quote and am too shy to post in fb. So here is it for u and everybody:

Even after all this time,
The sun never says to the earth,
"You owe me."
Look what happens with
A love like that.
It lights the whole sky.

zzen said...

Somehow i think this person has his/her reasons.I am not making excuses for him/her, but I just think there is more than meets the eye.