Wednesday, May 25, 2011

Thought for me today:

I can't just see a person for who he is to become and encourage them in that direction. I need to walk beside them, through the ugly parts and all, to bring them into the reality of that vision.

7 comments:

Lucille♥Love said...

I guess that's ♥

joline said...

lucille:

yup. it really takes perseverence to love someone enough to see them through the roughening up before you see them shine. but i realize i cannot do this for everyone too, i must learn to drop the "hero" complex. :)

zzen said...

sometimes pple need to make mistakes to learn. even though we know they are going to be hurt, we must still let them fall down and pick themselves up again.

joline said...

zzen:

yeah and being there for them can be challenging... esp when you disagree with their decisions.

z said...

that is unconditional care. i know it irks u about pple obviously going to make a big mistake(or a small mistake but still a mistake) but the problem is if people need to make the mistake first the they will learn. so on one hand, u want to wake them up to make them avoid making mistakes, but u must realise it is their lives. their choices. u cant be carrying other pple's burdens on ur shoulders all the time. unload.

zzen said...

i remember u telling me before, sometimes no matter what u have done, it doesnt mean some things wont happened. even if we have done what we could, and said, it doesnt mean things will change for the better. yeah. a fact is something u cant change while a problem is something u can resolve. the tricky thing is do u think it is a fact or a problem? accept it as a reality of life if it is a fact. if it is a problem, no problem cant be resolved.

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